In order to fall pregnant you need the following:
A healthy egg
Healthy sperm
Perfect timing
Clear tubes
Right?? Sperm breezes through tubes meets egg. They travel back to the uterus and implant. Easy peasy!!
Do you know how many basic things can go wrong besides the obvious?
The outer shell of the egg, the Zona Pellucida, usually hardens after the chosen sperm enters the egg. It is possible that the outer shell does not allow the lucky sperm to enter, or allows too many sperm to enter the egg. (Greedy egg) Both these situations result in abnormalities that lead to infertility.
OR
Once an egg is fertilized, there is an 80 percent chance of cell division. The rate of division of the resulting embryo is also of significance. Usually 48 hours after fertilization, the embryo is between two to four cells. At 72 hours, they are usually between six to eight cells. After five days of growth, they are usually over 120 cells with a fluid cavity in the middle - known as the Blastocyst. If a larger than expected percentage of embryos divide slowly or stop dividing at any stage, this can result in infertility.
OR
There can also be problems with normal implantation of the embryo once it reaches the uterus lining. This can be due to the presence or absence of certain important factors needed for implantation at the level of the uterus or the embryo. The outer shell of the embryo can be too hard or thick and not allow hatching of the embryo out of its shell (Zona Pellucida). This can result in a lower chance of implantation. Hence no pregnancy.
Goodness me, no wonder I’m not pregnant yet. There are just too many factors that can go wrong. Dumb luck I guess. (And the fact that we don’t have the best sperm to begin with.)
Wednesday, July 8, 2009
No wonder....
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Tuesday, July 7, 2009
Congrats Lisa and DH!!!
Our second Making Babies baby has just entered the world. A huge congrats to Lisa on the birth of their son, Cole. May he bring you all the happiness in the universe!
It's so amazing to get these birth announcements especially after following the pregnancy's from day 1, and not forgetting the frustration and heartache of the trying to conceive journey that came before the joy.
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Monday, July 6, 2009
Not such a blue Monday....
For everyone around me. (Mine is more cobalt blue, not baby blue....)
I've been receiving good news all round this morning. Every 10 minutes when I click send/receive on my mail or refresh on one of the forums. BFPs galore and excitement. It's giving me a headache. LOL.
I must say I'm getting more and more impressed with these Fertile XX/XY drops. Not only did friend report last week about her Fertile XY success story with regards to improvement of her DH's sperm. Quote her doctors words: "has never seen such a 'powerful' sample.".... I just got an email 5 minutes ago from a client that has been using XY and XX this last cycle, and just got her BFP. :)
Very Exciting!!
I also have another possible BFP in the making with another friend who I've been in contact with this whole cycle (of hers). Will confirm on Wednesday with bloods.
Then our next Making Babies baby is entering the world tomorrow!!! Lisa, wishing you all the best. Enjoy every minute!
I'm in a terrible mood today. Ready to kill anyone who crosses my path today. Yes, KILL....... Be warned. It's good that I have a split personality. See I can be totally excited about all the good news today, and still be violently inclined at the same time. :)
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Friday, July 3, 2009
I'm famous for my weird dreams. My friends often sit there shaking their heads when I recall my dream from the previous night. Last night was one for the books.
There was this black eagle/hawk type bird. Massive. I remember his yellow beak and rings around his eyes. He got stuck in my hair!!!! By his claws. Yes, in my dream I had long hair. Not the current pixie short cut I have now. So there I'm running around with an Eagle attached to my head. If I try to get him off, he would bite the cr@p out of me. I kept begging everyone around me to kill the stupid bird!! But everyone just stared blankly at me. As if it was totally normal to have a bird stuck to your head.
I actually woke up this morning with one mother of a headache. Yeah don't laugh, you try carrying a 4kg bird on your head!
So I clicked on Dream Moods to go see what this all meant.
To see an eagle in your dream, symbolizes nobility, pride, fierceness, freedom, superiority, courage, and powerful intellectual ability. It also represents self-renewal and your connection with your spirituality. You will struggle fiercely and courageously to realize your highest ambitions and greatest desires.
I like the powerful intellectual ability. You know I got that!
To see an eagle chained down in your dream, represents a desperate situation where you are feeling restricted and confined. You are unable to express yourself and be who you really want to be. Consider also what the eagle is chained down to for additional clues as to what might be holding you back.
Ok, he was tied down to my hair.... Hmmmmm
If your hair is knotted or tangled, then it is symbolic of uncertainty and confusion in your life. You may be unable to think straight.
So right. :)
I'm super excited for tomorrow. I will be meeting up with a fellow infertility warrior! I'm hoping she gets her BFP today though. But if not, girl we are going to have some drinks tomorrow on stupid AF!!
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Thursday, July 2, 2009
Making Babies first Baby!!!!
I'm so proud to announce the official first Making Babies Baby was born today.
A big congrats to Angelique and her family on the birth of their daughter!
It's been such a privilege sharing your pregnancy on the Making Babies Network.
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Wednesday, July 1, 2009
Now is a really great time for you to chill out and let your emotional batteries recharge -- you've been running too fast for too long! You should be back in the game before you know it.
That is exactly what I'm trying to do. Just chill. Just chill about TTC. Throwing myself into my work. I'm limiting my time on the TTC forum. Well more so from talking about myself on the TTC forum. I don't want to get sucked in again. Just need a breather!
But that doesn't mean I'm not busy finding all kinds of interesting articles and info to share with my MB Network members.
I'm also trying to figure out the whole FAN PAGE thing on Face Book. You will see I added a badge to the left. So become a FAN!!
Work is good. Work is therapeutic. Even though it's centered around TTC, it's not my TTC journey I'm talking about. It's not my emotions. I'm helping someone else. :)
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